A few years ago, both my kids went through a stage where they didn't want to read.  I introduced them to all kinds of books hoping that one would make an impact.  I read to them at night and I would take note of the books they picked out for me to read.  Did they enjoy it when I read?  If so, they might have found books that are interesting, it might just be a struggle for them to read.  I tried to figure out why they didn't like to read and I came up with a few reasons and some solutions.

Reasons They May Tell You They Don't Like To Read

1. They are learning to read.  If your child is just learning to read, it is hard work and it can be frustrating.  When they are learning, they will go through a period that is seems like someone is always correcting them.  How fun is that?  Try having them read the lowest level books.  Encourage them to read for about 15 minutes and if they show signs of frustration, read the next page and take turns.  Have them pick out books they want to read or look for books that include their interests.  Do they like comics, funny stories, suspense, sports or history?  Find their interest and give them time.  I think it is normal for many children to say they don't like to read when they are learning.  Keep an eye on this, because eventually they should show signs of improvement and enjoyment.
2. They have a learning difficulty (disability).  Once they learn how to read, if they continue to struggle or show little interest, talk to their teacher.  Pay attention to their reading.  Do they show consistent signs with their difficulty?  Ask them questions to see if you can find out what may be causing the frustration.  Rule out any possibilities such as a speech issue, dyslexia or ADD/ADHD.  If this is the case, the sooner they can be treated the sooner they will begin to enjoy reading.
3. They haven't found the right book.  Become an investigator of great books with your child.  Make a fun activity out of this with your child.  Think of all the different types of books and subjects.  Ask questions and find your child's interest.  Do they enjoy fiction or non-fiction stories?  Let them investigate, read a little and if they don't like it, have them try a different book.  They can keep a journal and write notes about what they did or did not like, start them out with books below their reading level.  It may take awhile to find the right type of book that will introduce your child to the love of reading.  But the search for books that cause you to love reading is well worth it.

I have to admit, it was hard for me to understand why my kids didn't like to read.  I love to read!  I enjoy the escape and relaxation it provides.  I love it when a story consumes you and you find it difficult to put down.  I love it when you are so moved by a book that you find yourself laughing out loud, highlighting portions, taking notes and even finding yourself so emotional you cry.  Those are signs of a great book! 

I noticed on one of our trips to our favorite bookstore that what I considered friendly conversation was actually investigation.  They asked my kids questions about what they were reading, what they liked and pointed out a few books.  They told them to see what books looked interesting to them.  They pointed out the summary of the book on the jacket.  Then they told them to take the book, sit down in a chair or on the floor and read a couple of pages.  If they still wanted to read, that would be a good choice.  They taught my kids how to pick out a book.  They even told them that sometimes they may start a book and if it isn't holding their interest, read a little further, just in case it picks back up.  But if it doesn't hold their interest, put that book away and find another one.  They may end up liking it later.

Valerie Koehler, owner of Blue Willow Bookshop,  mentioned that when it comes to reading we need to be a role model for our children.  Think of the impact you have when you are reading a book and you laugh out loud or you are moved to tears.  They want to know what is so funny or why you are crying.  This is an opportunity to show them that some stories can effect you emotionally and pull you deeper into the story.

This summer, I will join them during reading time.  You might find us outside (in the shade on a blanket) or on our sofa in the family room.  We might be reading our own books or sharing a story out loud.  You might even find us in a deep discussion or laughing out loud. 

Will you join your kids in reading time?

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