I ran across this post and thought it was appropriate to share with parents. As many of you know, I have been working on a presentation to educate parents on technology and internet safety for our kids. Kids needs to be aware (at the appropriate time) that they will be faced with this type of behavior. It could be through chat rooms, IM, social network sites (myspace, facebook, etc.), youtube, emails and videocalls. They need to know how to respond, and if possible, BEFORE it happens. In addition, we need to make sure we are teaching our kids to be respectful of others.
This is What it is Like Being a Hot Girl...
by Diggy
The difference between men and women is pretty big and being a guy you are mostly the predator:)
I’ve never seen it from a girls perspective and decided to set up an experiment,
I made an account on facebook with pictures of a really good looking girl, and filled in some interests, I must have had close to 50 random guys adding me and sending messages to this account, of course them thinking its the gorgeous girl in the display picture!
Below I’m going to post the emails that were sent:…
HEy u! can u maybe send me ur number plz???
im sorry to ask but wasiu in london about 8yrs ago and do u know jackie and benj?
xxx
hey hey.. how u doing =) xx
Halo there. How are you and where you from ?
HI. , you are a real good tease!
hi
you seem like some one i would really like to get to know better
where in south africa are you from?
or rather what city are you in?
Hi it is Chris. I have no idea why I mailed you. Sorry!
You are Stunning! Where do you live?
dAMN, YA SUPA HOT
oh my you r real sexy ,,,mmmmm yummy
wow…ur bod is absolutly STUNNING and amazing..damn ur like a sex g0ddess!
u r very sexy, wana kiss ur luscious lipz
where in SA are you from
i must say you are very attractive
u are really a vision of true beauty and your naughty smile. . . sexy any way just thought id say hey maybe chat sometime if u keen
Hey how r u beautiful?
Hi
How is your day so far?
I am a very spontaneous guy that is not shy and very direct
I would love to chat with you and get to know you better
Who knows what might happen in the future………..I might just be the one you are looking for.Do you like being spoiled………
What do you like doing for fun and adventure in your spare time?
hey , u r beautiful n sexy gal, wana be friends
lets hav sex i would love to
Beauty has never been so Devine , What do you do to keep yourself busy ……
Without any strings attached , whats your hobbies and interests…..
Hey gorgeous
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I think you get the point by now…I could continue posting more of these kind of messages but Im frustrated by these guys already so Im stopping !
You know…I never realised that girls have to put up with this kind of nonsense!
Its pretty ridiculous actually. I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t reply to a single one of these messages. They are all the same, needy and pathetic, and not one of the stand out or seem like they really want to get to know the girl.
Judging from the messages above there should be two big realisations and lightbulb moments for you…
1.) You should now realise why girls and especially gorgeous girls act and behave the way they do. Why they have defenses up and why they sometimes seem to come across as bitches. All they are doing is separating the wussies and needy guys from the real men. In dating methods like The Mystery Method, it explains that girls have shields up because there is no possible way that they can have time for each and every guy that tries to approach her or contact her, and she has to come up with a way of maximizing her time and wasting as little of it as possible. Now you can see why this is true!
2.) You should now easily be able to see how to be different from most guys in this world, how to not be needy and wussy, and how to get her attention just by standing out. Especially in real life, if you are having a good time with your buddies, you’re having fun, you walk confident, you can keep eye-contact and you are better than average on the dancefloor, you have a big edge over most guys already. Girls can pick up on this very easily, and when they do and you go to talk to them, all you have to do is be yourself, because a girl can spot quality very fast.
Think for yourself a moment, if you were or are a gorgeous girl, would you even remotely consider spending a millisecond of your time on any one of these guys?
I surely would not. Maybe there are some of these guys who are truly awesome people…but …by acting and portraying themselves the way they do, they might and most certainly will miss their chance of a gorgeous girl getting to know them!
You can find more articles by Diggy at UpgradeReality.com.
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